Spice Up Your Sex Life With These 9 Kinky Ways to Play

Spice Up Your Sex Life With These 9 Kinky Ways to Play

Can you believe that the number of adults in the US not having sex is at the highest ever?

If you and your partner are part of this statistic and you’re not happy about it, then it’s time to do something! Spicing up your sex life is a great way to enjoy sex again.

In this article, we’ll look at some of the most common kinks so you can decide what you think would work for you and your boo. Let’s take a look.

1. Invest in Some Lingerie

Let’s ease into this kinky new world with something simple that everyone can enjoy. Sexy lingerie! No matter your gender, there is lingerie that will turn you and your partner on.

Why not try lingerie shopping together with your partner? Show them something that you’re thinking of buying and ask them whether they’d like to see you wearing it.

Ask them about their preferences, do they prefer garters, lace, plunge bras, bodysuits, thongs? Don’t forget to also purchase a silk robe to do a grand reveal.

2. Start Working Out Together

Surprisingly, exercise has been found to increase sex drive. By getting your sweat on, you’re activating your sympathetic nervous system which will make you feel horny.

So, why not take your partner for a workout? Although you may think getting red and sweaty together will reduce desire, you’ll actually find the opposite.

When you’ve done an hour of couple’s yoga, been for a mildly competitive run together, or spotted each other on the weights, you’ll be ready for a quickie.

Sweaty sex is a major kink for many people. If it’s not working for you, why not take this to the shower where you can wash each other too?

3. Sexting Is Sexy

Are you and your partner not the type to sext? Well, it’s time to give it a try! While your bae is out and about, send them a graphic message telling them what you want them to do to you (or vice versa!)

You’ll get them feeling hot under the collar before they head home. When you’re first starting out, don’t stray too far out of your comfort zone, but slowly push the barriers.

Perhaps send a message simply saying you miss kissing them and then go from there!

4. Vibrators Are Necessary

If you haven’t brought a vibrator into the bedroom yet, then it’s time to invest in one of these sexy inventions.

Anyone with a clitoris will enjoy the stimulation that a vibrator provides. A clitoral orgasm is a great way to get into the swing of a sex session.

5. Nipple Clamps Are a Godsend

Have you tried nipple clamps? Why not buy some as a present for your partner? They may take some getting used to, but anyone who loves nipple play will enjoy these.

Furthermore, they’re inexpensive but totally kinky. You may feel a little embarrassed to try these out if you’re new to toys, so why not enjoy a glass of wine or two with your partner before heading to the bedroom?

6. Butt Plugs Are for the More Adventurous

Anyone who hasn’t tried anal play can’t say they don’t enjoy it! So, ask your partner if they’d be willing to try exploring this area of the body with you.

Ease into anal by buying butt plugs that are small or a set that comes in a range of sizes. If it’s painful, then grab some more lube!

By stimulating the anal region, you’re more likely to have an Earth-shattering, life-changing orgasm. Who doesn’t want that?

7. Leather or Uniform?

Sit down with your partner and talk to them about everything that turns them on. What do they love, what do they hate? Have a frank and honest discussion.

Is there anything that you are doing that they don’t want you to do? Are you neglecting areas of their body?

After this chat, why not talk about other kinks, such as people they’ve fancied in the past. You may find that role-playing is a great way to get physical.

Getting dressed up in costumes will also help you get started. For example, why not try being a dominatrix or wearing a police officer uniform? This may just result in the best sex of your life.

8. Are You Ready for BDSM?

When people think of kinks, their minds usually go to BDSM. But, as we’ve seen in this article, this is not the only option.

Although films such as Fifty Shades of Grey have brought BDSM into the mainstream, it’s simply not for everyone. You don’t have to indulge in these practices to kink up your sex life.

However, if you and your partner have decided that Bondage Discipline Sadism and Masochism are something you want to try, then it’s time to do some reading.

Learn about how you can set boundaries together, how you want to inflict pain, who you want to be the dom, and who will be the sub.

This is not something to just jump into, but something that should be discussed and considered to ensure both partners are safe and happy.

9. Group Sex Is Something to Consider

Again, group sex is something that needs to be considered. You need to find the right people and environment for you.

But, you may find that group sex is a much more common kink than you may realize. In fact, one in seven Americans has had a threesome.

Finding the right person (or people) to invite into your bedroom may take some time and requires thought. But, it could be very worth it!

Which of These Common Kinks Will You Try?

Now you know some of the most common kinks, it’s time to start purchasing vibrators, lingerie, and butt plugs! Chat to your partner to see what they like the idea of doing.

It may be difficult to introduce a new kink into your bedroom, but once you have opened up a dialogue and made your wishes clear, you’ll find yourself on the right path.

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