Bondage for Beginners: 6 Tips to Help Get You Started

When choosing a dildo, size is a major consideration. This guide explains how to choose a dildo size that is right for you.

Dildo Size

Over half of Americans like to use a dildo or vibrator to spice up their sex lives. But how can you know you’re getting the right size? Figuring out your ideal dildo size can be confusing, but it’s all worth it for the happy ending.

Whether you’re looking for some solo play or want to find a piece to use with your partner, I’ll walk you through what you need to know when dildo shopping. Finding the perfect piece for you is more of an art than a science, but there are a few important points to know!

Whether you’re a dildo aficionado or just dipping your toes into the world of sex toys, read on. I’ve got some insider secrets on how to pick the perfect dong.

What to Do if You’re New to Dildos

If you don’t have much experience with toys, don’t worry. You just have to know what you like and what your goals are. Go into this hunt with a clear set of criteria for your dildo.

Take a few minutes to imagine your ideal toy: is it compact and smooth, or on the larger side? Browse through different types of dildos online to see what designs intrigue you. Decide whether you want to purchase something within your comfort zone or get more adventurous.

You may be tempted to splurge on a larger toy. However, bigger is not always better! You don’t want your toy to arrive and be too big to enjoy.

Picking the Right Dildo Size

Since you usually can’t take a dildo for a test ride (pun intended), it’s important to go into each purchase prepared. Once you have a general idea of what you’re looking for in a toy, you need to know which measurements will be right for you.

When shopping for dongs, keep a ruler nearby to help you visualize the size of the piece. If you have toys that you’ve enjoyed before, refer to their measurements while shopping. Toys that you don’t love as much can be helpful as well: you can use them to decide what dildos will be too small or too large!

Finding the Right Material

You can find dildos in a variety of materials, from soft silicone to glass. Deciding which material is right for you depends on what you expect from your dildo.

If you’re looking to stretch yourself, choose a dildo made of a softer molded silicone. This will ensure that you’ll stay comfortable while pushing your limits!

Smaller pieces benefit from sturdier material. Glass and other solid dildos are smaller for easier insertion. The cool, smooth surface will enhance your experience.

Keep in mind that you will be regularly cleaning your dildos. Silicone and porous materials require more maintenance, but are also more durable. Glass and solid dildos are easy to sanitize, but may not survive a tumble from your nightstand!

Length vs. Girth

The two most important dimensions to consider when dildo shopping are length and girth. Are you looking for a long dong or a wide one to wrap around? It can be difficult to visualize the girth of a dildo from the measurements alone.

If you’re an absolute beginner to penetration, we recommend a dildo that’s 1″ in diameter or smaller. You can decide the length according to your own preferences, but you won’t be overwhelmed by the size. This will make for a pleasurable beginner experience!

Dildos with a diameter of 1.25″ to 1.5″ are a great middle ground. They’re large enough to pleasure experienced users, but not uncomfortably large. Don’t be afraid to test with your fingers to get a better idea of how a piece will fit.

Finally, if you’re looking to stretch yourself, shop dongs with a diameter of 1.75″ and up. You can work your way through the sizes and adjust based on your comfort level!

Dildo Aesthetics

Before you buy, ask yourself: do you want your dong to look like, well, a dong? You’ll find lots of hyper-realistic models, complete with molded veins and wrinkles. If that’s likely to put you off in the middle of a fun time, though, don’t worry.

Dildos can be fun. They don’t all have to be veiny and flesh-toned! You can find smooth models, colorful ones, and even dildos that look nothing like penises.

You may be drawn to the curved toys that promise amazing G-spot stimulation. These are great to experience, and we highly recommend trying them at least once. Curved dildos are designed to fit snugly and adjust to the shape of your body.

If you’re pretty comfortable with the toys you already have, try to find one that will push your limits a little bit. Check out some inflatable pieces for stretching practice, or double-sided pieces!

Read the Reviews!

The most invaluable source of information when shopping online is customer reviews. You can read about people’s honest experiences with their pieces! This way, you can see what the dildo looks like in real life.

By reading reviews you can avoid dongs that are larger or smaller than advertised or are too stiff to be pleasurable. But keep in mind that personal preference informs many reviews; someone may not love the dildo that’s perfect for you! Read some reviews with a grain of salt.

When buying online, make every move to ensure you’re getting what you pay for!

Get Ready for the Ride of Your Life

I hope this article has you feeling a little more confident about which dildo size would fit into your lifestyleSex toys open you up to a whole new world of pleasure, and a great dildo is a perfect place to start.

Once you’re ready to shop, there’s plenty to offer you here at Freaky Kiki’s. Affordable bliss is only a few clicks away. Browse our dongs and dildos; we’re sure to have the perfect toy for you.

 

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